Following and Trusting : Encountering God Out of the Box

I have been pondering the question: “Which is more important if one had to choose: a ‘happy’ marriage without Christ or a broken marriage that has driven one closer to Christ?” The answer affects eternity. We have faith and pray for miracles on earth but ultimately what is essential to our soul? The most gracious and Christ devoted people in my life have often experienced the most earthly brokenness. What is your thought/insight or experience on this? I’d love to hear.