How do you forgive a sexual abuser? By writing a letter | Mary DeMuth

letterboys-1022x1024We who know redemption are tired of miring ourselves in the painful past.
Instead we will STAND.
We will dance.
We will give our healed lives to rescue souls from the darkness…

Read Mary’s incredible blog post… How do you forgive a sexual abuser? By writing a letter | Mary DeMuth.

 

A Kiss Instead of a Lecture (Grace)

“You’re worried about permissiveness – about the way the preaching of grace seems to say it’s okay to do all kinds of terrible things as long as you just walk in afterward and take the free gift of God’s forgiveness… While you and I may be worried about seeming to give permission, Jesus apparently wasn’t. He wasn’t afraid of giving the prodigal son a kiss instead of a lecture, a party instead of probation; and he proved that by bringing in the elder brother at the end of the story and having him raise pretty much the same objections you do. He’s angry about the party. He complains that his father is lowering standards and ignoring virtue – that music, dancing, and a fatted calf are, in effect, just so many permissions to break the law. And to that, Jesus has the father say only one thing: “Cut that out! We’re not playing good boys and bad boys any more. Your brother was dead and he’s alive again. The name of the game from now on is resurrection, not bookkeeping.”

Robert Farrar Capon

Fearless One Minute, Freaking Out the Next

“Whether you deny Jesus in what you do or don’t do, he forgives and restores you as he did Peter.”

I shared this above with a friend and she replied…

“That was fantastic!!! Thank you for sharing! I love all your ‘Peter’ moments! What an honour to know that you (we) will rise and fall, but that our Father is there EVERY TIME to pick us up, dust us off and praise us, sending us back on course.

You are beloved! Your energy is contagious as it exudes the love of our Father! I LOVE that about you! You share that same twinkle in your eye that your Dad has. Captivating, inviting, loving and spunky! Don’t ever change! I love you, just the way you are!!!”

Wow, I certainly have found a friend who has Christ’s love in her heart. May we all be so blessed. May we be that friend.

May we also know that we can be freaking out one minute, turn to Jesus and He makes us fearless!